I heard some American joked about us having Chinese food in US while when they were in China, they do not crave for their food. What I experienced today could not have explained why that is.
We went to UW for the cherry blossom,which was wonderful. My little girl was doing what DaiYu's 行为艺术,only with her dad's cowboy hat。The blossom is out, so is half of the City.
Afterwards, we decided to treat us a great meal. We yelped around and found almost every the resteraunts were closed except for this one typical place, an organic vegetan cafe. The name sounds healthy. We went in and had the worst food ever. My stomache was full afterwards, but I didnt get the satisfaction of being fed.
Butter in the rice, with raw spanish? We feed that to pigs! I went grocery shopping and bought over $120 grocery, which way over exceeded my avergage grocery shopping for half a week of $60 or so.
After the homemade food, I felt so much better.
Now i understand why the Girl Who Chase the Moon could make the hit. It was about Love, BBQ and Cake. Reading the books gave you that gratitude. I returned the author's first book thinking life is too short to read too many novels.
Ok, there is nothing really meaningful i could share today.
Sunday, March 31, 2013
Saturday, March 30, 2013
巧虎全集
巧虎2013:http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWLduC8yym6sgVjs4tNqR0O1JAtlbZL_f
巧虎宝宝版:http://www.youtube.com/playlistlist=PLWLduC8yym6vBRZA9OK29jMq3s9VvhdI0
巧虎学汉字:http://www.youtube.com/playlistlist=PLWLduC8yym6ua4iSnxLIlfL5JJKYkcRVj&feature=view_all
巧虎学唐诗:http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWLduC8yym6sAnQqa5rJdejca1bm6yqJ3
巧虎宝宝版:http://www.youtube.com/playlistlist=PLWLduC8yym6vBRZA9OK29jMq3s9VvhdI0
巧虎学汉字:http://www.youtube.com/playlistlist=PLWLduC8yym6ua4iSnxLIlfL5JJKYkcRVj&feature=view_all
巧虎学唐诗:http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLWLduC8yym6sAnQqa5rJdejca1bm6yqJ3
Thursday, March 28, 2013
Business System _ Build a sustainable system, and dont do head cracking things
I have always been using "edge" as to what distinguish myself to others, while not aware that sometimes the right word should be "niche".
It just dawned on me that running the home can be a challenging business too. The home needs a system that is sustainable. With that thought, I cleaned my kitchen and put away a few items to more appropriate locations. Together with bathing girls early, those two changes will make my home run more smoothly. With dad now tells stories every night other than just Wednesdays(my off-story night), I get to enjoy my evening earlier.
So, girls, look around yourself and see what changes you could make to make your life a little nicer, be it a walk after dinner, or ten minutes quiet yourself time.
PS. since someone was telling me about some head cracking experience, I found my favorite joke from seinfield, and thought I could share with you gals.
http://www.distributedrepublic.net/archives/2005/10/17/jerry-seinfeld-on-helmets-and-helmet-laws/
It just dawned on me that running the home can be a challenging business too. The home needs a system that is sustainable. With that thought, I cleaned my kitchen and put away a few items to more appropriate locations. Together with bathing girls early, those two changes will make my home run more smoothly. With dad now tells stories every night other than just Wednesdays(my off-story night), I get to enjoy my evening earlier.
So, girls, look around yourself and see what changes you could make to make your life a little nicer, be it a walk after dinner, or ten minutes quiet yourself time.
PS. since someone was telling me about some head cracking experience, I found my favorite joke from seinfield, and thought I could share with you gals.
http://www.distributedrepublic.net/archives/2005/10/17/jerry-seinfeld-on-helmets-and-helmet-laws/
孩子早睡觉的秘诀
就是早点洗澡。早点洗澡了,吃饭后玩一会就可以睡觉了。
以前总等到吃饭后洗澡,然后洗澡,搞搞起码9点洗澡。现在我做饭的时候,孩子放浴室淋浴,然后穿衣,玩玩,吃饭。
这样7点半就technically可以睡觉了。8点,8点半就可以送孩子睡觉了。
这个以前孩子很小的时候人家告诉我的,说,第一件事情就是给孩子洗澡,才能保证孩子早睡觉。真理啊!可惜被埋没这么久。
Running a house is a business too. It needs a system that works, that generate more results with less man power, I meant woman power.
So bathing kids early is the first step to improve my home stay business. This morning I also cleaned up the kitchen, and designated items to better locations.
It is all about setting up a sustainable
business system.
以前总等到吃饭后洗澡,然后洗澡,搞搞起码9点洗澡。现在我做饭的时候,孩子放浴室淋浴,然后穿衣,玩玩,吃饭。
这样7点半就technically可以睡觉了。8点,8点半就可以送孩子睡觉了。
这个以前孩子很小的时候人家告诉我的,说,第一件事情就是给孩子洗澡,才能保证孩子早睡觉。真理啊!可惜被埋没这么久。
Running a house is a business too. It needs a system that works, that generate more results with less man power, I meant woman power.
So bathing kids early is the first step to improve my home stay business. This morning I also cleaned up the kitchen, and designated items to better locations.
It is all about setting up a sustainable
business system.
Wednesday, March 27, 2013
About English
Toastmasters.org is a good place to practice public speaking. I did not get my PhD so I did not get the urge of talking in front of a group people quenched yet. I need to rejoin TM.
And always speak slowly, it will give myself time to organize thoughts and be understood better. Trying to talk fast to sound like American is not the way to go. But I once heard that if you cant persuade someone, just confuse them.
Another one I want to share with you girls goes like this. People tend to pay more attention to people with accent, why? Because they have to.
I googled this one. really funny. read along
Unfamiliar Accents Turn Off Humans And Songbirds
New research suggests that our brains have a built-in bias against people whose accents don't sound like our own.
Songbirds, like this male tricolored blackbird, develop regional accents in the same way humans do, researchers found. And, like humans, songbirds seem to respond better to accents they already know.
Dave Menke/Courtesy of the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service
That's the conclusion of Scottish researchers who presented their work at the Society for Neuroscience meeting in San Diego.
The team, from the University of Glasgow and the University of Edinburgh, used a functional MRI scanner to study the brains of 20 native Scots as they listened to native English speakers with Scottish, American and southern English accents. They focused on the brain's temporal voice area, which seems to specialize in processing characteristics of particular voices.
Earlier research had found that people process words spoken in their own accent more quickly and with less effort. So the team expected the brain scans would show a decrease in brain activity in this area.
Instead, the scans showed a "huge increase," says Patricia Bestelmeyer of the University of Glasgow.
Also, when the Scottish volunteers listened repeatedly to an American or southern English accent, their brain activity gradually diminished. But that didn't happen when they listened repeatedly to someone speaking in their own accent, Bestelmeyer says.
That suggests that people's brains are paying more attention to the voice of someone from their own group than from a different group.
From an evolutionary perspective, it makes evolutionary sense that our brains are wired to detect accents, Bestelmeyer says. "Accents convey important information about the speaker's social background," she says, adding that accents offer a quick way to determine whether someone is part of our own group or an outsider.
Songbird Accents
It's still not clear precisely how the human brain does all this, Bestelmeyer says. But, oddly enough, people who study birds think they may have some clues. That's because songbirds, like people, learn to vocalize early in life and develop regional accents. So research on bird brains could help explain what's going on in the human brain, says Jon Prather from the University of Wyoming.
Prather has studied the brains of swamp sparrows from Pennsylvania and New York, whose calls have subtle differences that are a lot like accents.
"We studied a region of the bird brain that is involved in not only how they sing their songs but how they perceive differences in their songs," he says. And that research found individual brain cells that would respond to one accent — but not another.
Steve Carell: Strange Accents And Subtle Departures
So Prather and researchers from Duke University compared songbirds from Pennsylvania with songbirds from New York. They found specific brain cells in the Pennsylvania birds that responded to songs sung in their own accent, but they would stop firing when exposed to a New York accent.
"It would effectively shut down. It would not respond at all," he says.
All of which suggests that that songbirds from Pennsylvania and New York recognize each other's speech differences much the way human residents do, Prather says. And in nature, he adds, members of one group tend to be wary of members of another.
"We think that's actually the reason that Eagles and Giants fans don't get along," he says.
Franchise Meeting
I went to this Franchise Meeting today and I had a lot of fun. I dont know how I bumped into this info but it must have been that it showed up when I was searching all over for information about business.
They organizer first talked about themselves. I figured what they said is too good to be true. I could not have said better myself. So here is what they say themselves.
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The Franchisors(the ones who try to sell franchises) includes Home care business, school business, digital marketing company, staffing company, haircut salon chain, and a Zoup company.
I am particularly interested in the staffing company and the zoup company for various reasons.
I remember how hard it was for me to locate my first job right after 911, I did almost all byself, going to the a more prestigious university career fair. Then 4 years later, when I was ready to leave that city, I worked with a lot of head hunters and I remember how frustrating it was trying to explain that YES, I am legible to work in US, with a transfer of H1B, which is just paper work, and all I said didnt make a dent on them. But fortunately 2006 was a very good year and I landed a couple of offers and chose my dream company in my field. I remember telling my boss that I could see this as my last job. And the job just ended last week, and I am sure I will not go back to my field working as an engineer. Today at the beginning of the presentation, I shared with the room of people my situation and my expection, the organizer said, welcome to retirement. haha.
I would like to help Chinese workers to get their jobs, enhance their resumes so that what's written on paper do them justice, improve their interview skill to present their true selves.
I spoke to the franchisor and share with her my niche, and she said i could not just concentrate on certain group. With $100,000 or so to buy their franchise... I still havent figured out what business sytem they have that is worth that much.
The zoup store. We Chinese love food including soup. I make the best tomato soup. :) I believe the tomato soup makes your skin fair and best of all they endure over cooking. The best part I like about the Zoup is that the soup is premade, so there would be no cooking in the store. The soup was made, and stoped cooking and was placed to freezer right away to keep it fresh. For a zoup store, $400,000 is the fair price. There goes 0.5 SFH. Ouch!
But I met a Chinese guy who gave me information about what I really really wanted to do. So that is the beauty of networking and asking questions.
One baby step at a time. Hang in there! You go, girls!
Monday, March 25, 2013
So you think you work very hard?
This afternoon my 4 year old had a playdate with her preschool friend L. I knew L's mom is a family doctor. But what I did not know is that she gets up at 2 or 3 to start working, and goes to bed around 9. And she breastfeeds her 8 month baby.
But she has her parents to take care of babies and a husband that cooks. But I felt it came out wrong when I said you are very lucky after she said her husband cooks and yesterday he cook for the whole week. I didnt mean that a husband is not supposed to cook and take care of family. It is just that some women don't get all that...
I have the impression that Sheryl emphasized the importance of finding the supporting spouse is essential.
But she has her parents to take care of babies and a husband that cooks. But I felt it came out wrong when I said you are very lucky after she said her husband cooks and yesterday he cook for the whole week. I didnt mean that a husband is not supposed to cook and take care of family. It is just that some women don't get all that...
I have the impression that Sheryl emphasized the importance of finding the supporting spouse is essential.
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