Sunday, March 31, 2013

Chinese food

I heard some American joked about us having Chinese food in US while when they were in China, they do not crave for their food. What I experienced today could not have explained why that is.

We went to UW for the cherry blossom,which was wonderful. My little girl was doing what DaiYu's 行为艺术,only with her dad's cowboy hat。The blossom is out, so is half of the City.



Afterwards, we decided to treat us a great meal. We yelped around and found almost every the resteraunts were closed except for this one typical place, an organic vegetan cafe. The name sounds healthy. We went in and had the worst food ever. My stomache was full afterwards, but I didnt get the satisfaction of being fed.

Butter in the rice, with raw spanish? We feed that to pigs! I went grocery shopping and bought over $120 grocery, which way over exceeded my avergage grocery shopping for half a week of $60 or so.
After the homemade food, I felt so much better.

Now i understand why the Girl Who Chase the Moon could make the hit. It was about Love, BBQ and Cake. Reading the books gave you that gratitude. I returned the author's first book thinking life is too short to read too many novels.

Ok, there is nothing really meaningful i could share today.

Thursday, March 28, 2013

Business System _ Build a sustainable system, and dont do head cracking things

I have always been using "edge" as to what distinguish myself to others, while not aware that sometimes the right word should be "niche".

It just dawned on me that running the home can be a challenging business too. The home needs a system that is sustainable. With that thought, I cleaned my kitchen and put away a few items to more appropriate locations. Together with bathing girls early, those two changes will make my home run more smoothly. With dad now tells stories every night other than just Wednesdays(my off-story night), I get to enjoy my evening earlier.

So, girls, look around yourself and see what changes you could make to make your life a little nicer, be it a walk after dinner, or ten minutes quiet yourself time.

PS. since someone was telling me about some head cracking experience, I found my favorite joke from seinfield, and thought I could share with you gals.


http://www.distributedrepublic.net/archives/2005/10/17/jerry-seinfeld-on-helmets-and-helmet-laws/


孩子早睡觉的秘诀

就是早点洗澡。早点洗澡了,吃饭后玩一会就可以睡觉了。

以前总等到吃饭后洗澡,然后洗澡,搞搞起码9点洗澡。现在我做饭的时候,孩子放浴室淋浴,然后穿衣,玩玩,吃饭。
这样7点半就technically可以睡觉了。8点,8点半就可以送孩子睡觉了。

这个以前孩子很小的时候人家告诉我的,说,第一件事情就是给孩子洗澡,才能保证孩子早睡觉。真理啊!可惜被埋没这么久。


Running a house is a business too. It needs a system that works, that generate more results with less man power, I meant woman power.

So bathing kids early is the first step to improve my home stay business. This morning I also cleaned up the kitchen, and designated items to better locations.

It is all about setting up a sustainable
business system.

Wednesday, March 27, 2013

About English

Toastmasters.org is a good place to practice public speaking. I did not get my PhD so I did not get the urge of talking in front of a group people quenched yet. I need to rejoin TM.

And always speak slowly, it will give myself time to organize thoughts and be understood better. Trying to talk fast to sound like American is not the way to go. But I once heard that if you cant persuade someone, just confuse them.

Another one I want to share with you girls goes like this. People tend to pay more attention to people with accent, why? Because they have to.

I googled this one. really funny. read along

Unfamiliar Accents Turn Off Humans And Songbirds


New research suggests that our brains have a built-in bias against people whose accents don't sound like our own.
Songbirds, like this male tricolored blackbird, develop regional accents, researchers found. 
 
Songbirds, like this male tricolored blackbird, develop regional accents in the same way humans do, researchers found. And, like humans, songbirds seem to respond better to accents they already know.
Dave Menke/Courtesy of the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service
That's the conclusion of Scottish researchers who presented their work at the Society for Neuroscience meeting in San Diego.

The team, from the University of Glasgow and the University of Edinburgh, used a functional MRI scanner to study the brains of 20 native Scots as they listened to native English speakers with Scottish, American and southern English accents. They focused on the brain's temporal voice area, which seems to specialize in processing characteristics of particular voices.
Earlier research had found that people process words spoken in their own accent more quickly and with less effort. So the team expected the brain scans would show a decrease in brain activity in this area.

Instead, the scans showed a "huge increase," says Patricia Bestelmeyer of the University of Glasgow.
Also, when the Scottish volunteers listened repeatedly to an American or southern English accent, their brain activity gradually diminished. But that didn't happen when they listened repeatedly to someone speaking in their own accent, Bestelmeyer says.
That suggests that people's brains are paying more attention to the voice of someone from their own group than from a different group.
From an evolutionary perspective, it makes evolutionary sense that our brains are wired to detect accents, Bestelmeyer says. "Accents convey important information about the speaker's social background," she says, adding that accents offer a quick way to determine whether someone is part of our own group or an outsider.

Songbird Accents
It's still not clear precisely how the human brain does all this, Bestelmeyer says. But, oddly enough, people who study birds think they may have some clues. That's because songbirds, like people, learn to vocalize early in life and develop regional accents. So research on bird brains could help explain what's going on in the human brain, says Jon Prather from the University of Wyoming.
Prather has studied the brains of swamp sparrows from Pennsylvania and New York, whose calls have subtle differences that are a lot like accents.
"We studied a region of the bird brain that is involved in not only how they sing their songs but how they perceive differences in their songs," he says. And that research found individual brain cells that would respond to one accent — but not another.

Steve Carell: Strange Accents And Subtle Departures

So Prather and researchers from Duke University compared songbirds from Pennsylvania with songbirds from New York. They found specific brain cells in the Pennsylvania birds that responded to songs sung in their own accent, but they would stop firing when exposed to a New York accent.
"It would effectively shut down. It would not respond at all," he says.
All of which suggests that that songbirds from Pennsylvania and New York recognize each other's speech differences much the way human residents do, Prather says. And in nature, he adds, members of one group tend to be wary of members of another.
"We think that's actually the reason that Eagles and Giants fans don't get along," he says.


Franchise Meeting




I went to this Franchise Meeting today and I had a lot of fun. I dont know how I bumped into this info but it must have been that it showed up when I was searching all over for information about business.

They organizer first talked about themselves. I figured what they said is too good to be true. I could not have said better myself. So here is what they say themselves.

FranNet

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The Franchisors(the ones who try to sell franchises) includes Home care business, school business, digital marketing company, staffing company, haircut salon chain, and a Zoup company. 

I am particularly interested in the staffing company and the zoup company for various reasons. 

I remember how hard it was for me to locate my first job right after 911, I did almost all byself, going to the a more prestigious university career fair.  Then 4 years later, when I was ready to leave that city, I worked with a lot of head hunters and I remember how frustrating it was trying to explain that YES, I am legible to work in US, with a transfer of H1B, which is just paper work, and all I said didnt make a dent on them. But fortunately 2006 was a very good year and I landed a couple of offers and chose my dream company in my field. I remember telling my boss that I could see this as my last job. And the job just ended last week, and I am sure I will not go back to my field working as an engineer. Today at the beginning of the presentation, I shared with the room of people my situation and my expection, the organizer said, welcome to retirement. haha.

I would like to help Chinese workers to get their jobs, enhance their resumes so that what's written on paper do them justice, improve their interview skill to present their true selves. 

I spoke to the franchisor and share with her my niche, and she said i could not just concentrate on certain group. With $100,000 or so to buy their franchise... I still havent figured out what business sytem they have that is worth that much.

The zoup store. We Chinese love food including soup. I make the best tomato soup. :) I believe the tomato soup makes your skin fair and best of all they endure over cooking. The best part I like about the Zoup is that the soup is premade, so there would be no cooking in the store. The soup was made, and stoped cooking and was placed to freezer right away to keep it fresh. For a zoup store, $400,000 is the fair price. There goes 0.5 SFH. Ouch!

But I met a Chinese guy who gave me information about what I really really wanted to do. So that is the beauty of networking and asking questions.

One baby step at a time. Hang in there! You go, girls! 



Monday, March 25, 2013

So you think you work very hard?

This afternoon my 4 year old had a playdate with her preschool friend L. I knew L's mom is a family doctor. But what I did not know is that she gets up at 2 or 3 to start working, and goes to bed around 9. And she breastfeeds her 8 month baby.

But she has her parents to take care of babies and a husband that cooks. But I felt it came out wrong when I said you are very lucky after she said her husband cooks and yesterday he cook for the whole week. I didnt mean that a husband is not supposed to cook and take care of family. It is just that some women don't get all that...

I have the impression that Sheryl emphasized the importance of finding the supporting spouse is essential.

Tuesday, March 19, 2013

鼓励美女们到图书馆当志愿者,或者讲中文故事

鼓励妈妈们到图书馆当志愿者,或者讲中文故事  发贴心情 Post By:3/15/2013 12:45:00 AM

我一直到图书馆听中文故事。最近发现没有了,主动请缨讲,才发现讲world language story 要培训,然后每次还有报酬的。

我已经报名参加这个免费的培训,以后有时间也去图书馆帮助整理书籍什么的。

我有幼儿园老师朋友去志愿者,听她说在图书馆工作很好,很多人想去。

我想去当志愿者是个好的回馈社区的做法,也弘扬了我们中国文化,锻炼了自己。

分享下心得。希望姐妹们支持。


我一直到图书馆听中文故事。最近发现没有了,主动请缨讲,才发现讲world language story 要培训,然后每次还有报酬的。

我已经报名参加这个免费的培训,以后有时间也去图书馆帮助整理书籍什么的。

我有幼儿园老师朋友去志愿者,听她说在图书馆工作很好,很多人想去。

我想去当志愿者是个好的回馈社区的做法,也弘扬了我们中国文化,锻炼了自己。

分享下心得。希望姐妹们支持。

Leaving Microsoft to Change the World

刚知道这本leaving Microsoft to change the world. 经借了还没有开始读。讲的是一个很成功的MS executive 职去建立read room,他的组织遍布世界各地,但是中国还没有。

实中国女孩子,特别是中国农村女孩子需要我们的帮助。和这个主题也算接近吧。

本人有意向,但是不知道怎么操作。期待这里的姐妹指点。





http://www.leavingmicrosoftbook.com/


The Story

In 1998, John Wood was a rising executive at Microsoft when he took a vacation that changed his life. What started as a trekking holiday in Nepal became a spiritual journey and then a mission: to change the world one book and one child at a time by setting up libraries in the developing world. He was soon driven to leave his career with only a loose vision of the change he wanted to bring to the world.
John made the unlikely marriage between Microsoft business practices and the world of non-profits to create Room to Read, an organization that has created a network of over 7,500 libraries and 830 schools throughout rural and poor communities in Asia and Africa.
The organization is now one of the fastest growing, most effective, and award-winning non-profits of the last decade. John has been recognized in the worldwide media as a "21st century Andrew Carnegie," building a public library infrastructure to help the developing world break the cycle of poverty through the lifelong gift of education.

Speed reading-how to read 300% faster in 20 minutes

http://www.fourhourworkweek.com/blog/2009/07/30/speed-reading-and-accelerated-learning/



How much more could you get done if you completed all of your required reading in 1/3 or 1/5 the time?
Increasing reading speed is a process of controlling fine motor movement—period.
This post is a condensed overview of principles I taught to undergraduates at Princeton University in 1998 at a seminar called the “PX Project”. The below was written several years ago, so it’s worded like Ivy-Leaguer pompous-ass prose, but the results are substantial. In fact, while on an airplane in China two weeks ago, I helped Glenn McElhose increase his reading speed 34% in less than 5 minutes.
I have never seen the method fail. Here’s how it works…

The PX Project

The PX Project, a single 3-hour cognitive experiment, produced an average increase in reading speed of 386%.
It was tested with speakers of five languages, and even dyslexics were conditioned to read technical material at more than 3,000 words-per-minute (wpm), or 10 pages per minute. One page every 6 seconds. By comparison, the average reading speed in the US is 200-300 wpm (1/2 to 1 page per minute), with the top 1% of the population reading over 400 wpm…
If you understand several basic principles of the human visual system, you can eliminate inefficiencies and increase speed while improving retention.
To perform the exercises in this post and see the results, you will need: a book of 200+ pages that can lay flat when open, a pen, and a timer (a stop watch with alarm or kitchen timer is ideal). You should complete the 20 minutes of exercises in one session.
First, several definitions and distinctions specific to the reading process:
A) Synopsis: You must minimize the number and duration of fixations per line to increase speed.
You do not read in a straight line, but rather in a sequence of saccadic movements (jumps). Each of these saccades ends with a fixation, or a temporary snapshot of the text within you focus area (approx. the size of a quarter at 8? from reading surface). Each fixation will last ¼ to ½ seconds in the untrained subject. To demonstrate this, close one eye, place a fingertip on top of that eyelid, and then slowly scan a straight horizontal line with your other eye-you will feel distinct and separate movements and periods of fixation.
B) Synopsis: You must eliminate regression and back-skipping to increase speed.
The untrained subject engages in regression (conscious rereading) and back-skipping (subconscious rereading via misplacement of fixation) for up to 30% of total reading time.
C) Synopsis: You must use conditioning drills to increase horizontal peripheral vision span and the number of words registered per fixation.
Untrained subjects use central focus but not horizontal peripheral vision span during reading, foregoing up to 50% of their words per fixation (the number of words that can be perceived and “read” in each fixation).

The Protocol

You will 1) learn technique, 2) learn to apply techniques with speed through conditioning, then 3) learn to test yourself with reading for comprehension.
These are separate, and your adaptation to the sequencing depends on keeping them separate. Do not worry about comprehension if you are learning to apply a motor skill with speed, for example. The adaptive sequence is: technique ‘ technique with speed ‘ comprehensive reading testing.
As a general rule, you will need to practice technique at 3x the speed of your ultimate target reading speed. Thus, if you currently read at 300 wpm and your target reading speed is 900 wpm, you will need to practice technique at 1,800 words-per-minute, or 6 pages per minute (10 seconds per page).
We will cover two main techniques in this introduction:
1) Trackers and Pacers (to address A and B above)
2) Perceptual Expansion (to address C)

First – Determining Baseline

To determine your current reading speed, take your practice book (which should lay flat when open on a table) and count the number of words in 5 lines. Divide this number of words by 5, and you have your average number of words-per-line.
Example: 62 words/5 lines = 12.4, which you round to 12 words-per-line
Next, count the number of text lines on 5 pages and divide by 5 to arrive at the average number of lines per page. Multiply this by average number of words-per-line, and you have your average number of words per page.
Example: 154 lines/5 pages = 30.8, rounded to 31 lines per page x 12 words-per-line = 372 words per page
Mark your first line and read with a timer for 1 minute exactly-do not read faster than normal, and read for comprehension. After exactly one minute, multiply the number of lines by your average words-per-line to determine your current words-per-minute (wpm) rate.

Second – Trackers and Pacers

Regression, back-skipping, and the duration of fixations can be minimized by using a tracker and pacer. To illustrate the importance of a tracker-did you use a pen or finger when counting the number of words or lines in above baseline calculations? If you did, it was for the purpose of tracking-using a visual aid to guide fixation efficiency and accuracy. Nowhere is this more relevant than in conditioning reading speed by eliminating such inefficiencies.
For the purposes of this article, we will use a pen. Holding the pen in your dominant hand, you will underline each line (with the cap on), keeping your eye fixation above the tip of the pen. This will not only serve as a tracker, but it will also serve as a pacer for maintaining consistent speed and decreasing fixation duration. You may hold it as you would when writing, but it is recommended that you hold it under your hand, flat against the page.
1) Technique (2 minutes):
Practice using the pen as a tracker and pacer. Underline each line, focusing above the tip of the pen. DO NOT CONCERN YOURSELF WITH COMPREHENSION. Keep each line to a maximum of 1 second, and increase the speed with each subsequent page. Read, but under no circumstances should you take longer than 1 second per line.
2) Speed (3 minutes):
Repeat the technique, keeping each line to no more than ½ second (2 lines for a single “one-one-thousand”). Some will comprehend nothing, which is to be expected. Maintain speed and technique-you are conditioning your perceptual reflexes, and this is a speed exercise designed to facilitate adaptations in your system. Do not decrease speed. ½ second per line for 3 minutes; focus above the pen and concentrate on technique with speed. Focus on the exercise, and do not daydream.

Third – Perceptual Expansion

If you focus on the center of your computer screen (focus relating to the focal area of the fovea in within the eye), you can still perceive and register the sides of the screen. Training peripheral vision to register more effectively can increase reading speed over 300%. Untrained readers use up to ½ of their peripheral field on margins by moving from 1st word to last, spending 25-50% of their time “reading” margins with no content.
To illustrate, let us take the hypothetical one line: “Once upon a time, students enjoyed reading four hours a day.” If you were able to begin your reading at “time” and finish the line at “four”, you would eliminate 6 of 11 words, more than doubling your reading speed. This concept is easy to implement and combine with the tracking and pacing you’ve already practiced.
1) Technique (1 minute):
Use the pen to track and pace at a consistent speed of one line per second. Begin 1 word in from the first word of each line, and end 1 word in from the last word.
DO NOT CONCERN YOURSELF WITH COMPREHENSION. Keep each line to a maximum of 1 second, and increase the speed with each subsequent page. Read, but under no circumstances should you take longer than 1 second per line.

2) Technique (1 minute):

Use the pen to track and pace at a consistent speed of one line per second. Begin 2 words in from the first word of each line, and end 2 words in from the last word.
3) Speed (3 minutes):
Begin at least 3 words in from the first word of each line, and end 3 words in from the last word. Repeat the technique, keeping each line to no more than ½ second (2 lines for a single “one-one-thousand”).
Some will comprehend nothing, which is to be expected. Maintain speed and technique-you are conditioning your perceptual reflexes, and this is a speed exercise designed to facilitate adaptations in your system. Do not decrease speed. ½ second per line for 3 minutes; focus above the pen and concentrate on technique with speed. Focus on the exercise, and do not daydream.

Fourth – Calculate New WPM Reading Speed

Mark your first line and read with a timer for 1 minute exactly- Read at your fastest comprehension rate. Multiply the number of lines by your previously determined average words-per-line to get determine your new words-per-minute (wpm) rate.
Congratulations on completing your cursory overview of some of the techniques that can be used to accelerate human cognition (defined as the processing and use of information).
Final recommendations: If used for study, it is recommended that you not read 3 assignments in the time it would take you to read one, but rather, read the same assignment 3 times for exposure and recall improvement, depending on relevancy to testing.
Happy trails, page blazers

Monday, March 18, 2013

视频: 少儿围棋入门

少儿围棋入门第1集
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少儿围棋入门第2集
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四五快读

四五快读download

http://www.redmama.com.cn/thread-1303486-1-1.html
小学教材 download

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Lean In: Women, Work and the Will to Lead,


Don't hate me because I am successful, By Sheryl Sandberg from TIME March 7, 2013 issue

http://ideas.time.com/2013/03/07/confidence-woman/


In the mother of all book launches, Sheryl Sandberg — the COO of Facebook and a first-time author, though you would hardly know it — was interviewed by TIME’s deputy managing editor Nancy Gibbs at the Time Warner Center in New York City. Sandberg, the cover subject of this week’s TIME magazine, is on a mission to empower women in the workplace. “I believe that if more women lean in, we can change the power structure of our world and expand opportunities,” she writes in TIME’s exclusive excerpt of Lean In: Women, Work and the Will to Lead, a book that has gotten a tremendous amount prepublication attention.



Read more: http://ideas.time.com/2013/03/11/sheryl-sandberg-takes-center-stage/#ixzz2Nvl4HKc1




 

New Resources


http://leanin.org/

Founded by Facebook Sheryl Sandberg.


http://www.score.org/ to find free mentors and local business trainings

Hi girls, thanks for visiting this blog. I will continue to post online resources where we girls could get help and move us forward.

Stay tuned!